All Poems, Animals/Insects, Birth, Change, For Children, Gym/exercise, Parent Love

From the Window of the Gym

I watch from the window of the gym.

As I make rounds on the track.

Staying dry on a damp, drizzly day.

Gazing at geese.

Two parents, five goslings.

Roaming a distance from the pond.

Vigilance diminishing as hatchlings grow.

Bigger, fatter, faster.

Poking, picking at grass.

Unbothered by showers.

Maybe even rejoicing in them.

Finding them cool, refreshing, cleansing.

I think how patient parent geese are.

Wondering, do they ever lose their tempers?

As the babies age?

Become teens?

Obey less, defy more.

Claim independence.

I don’t really know.

Because by then, they fly away.

Till next Spring to nest.

Showing me their parenting

at its very best.

 

Lynn Benjamin

May 13, 2024

 

 

 

 

All Poems, Animals/Insects, For Children, Parent Love, Stories

Honking and Hollering

Listen to that honking and hollering, said a neighbor.

Walking by the pond with his dog.

Yes, I looked up. Father Goose protecting his young.

The hatchlings born only a few weeks ago.

Now turning from yellow to grayish.

Experts at diving into water.

Paddling like pedal boats.

Poking grass for snacks.

Once the neighbor left, I went to inspect.

Satisfying my own curiosity.

Two strange geese played under a fountain.

Like children at a water park.

When Father Goose began to hiss and honk.

Bellow and squawk.

He had already claimed that pond.

For his mate and six chicks.

One frolicking goose flew off.

The other stayed, watching the close-knit family.

Father gathered his brood together.

Likely still vigilant, of course.

On the ready to intervene.

Patrol like security force.

 

Lynn Benjamin

May 1,  2024

 

All Poems, Animals/Insects, Babies, Birth, For Children, Love, Mother Love, Parent Love, Stories

What Is It About Geese in a Pond?

What is it about geese in a pond?

Luring me toward them?

Multiple times a day?

To observe, snap photos?

Is it the goose honking each morning from a rooftop?

Announcing something new?

First the emergence of goslings.

Then, parents teaching them to swim.

Or, is it my own curiosity?

Admiration for these birds?

Calmly awaiting hatching?

Mother on her nest for weeks.

Father on duty around her.

Protecting his mate, progeny.

From outside threats.

Is it the way they pull together?

Now that the brood, born.

Both teaching chicks to glide upon water.

Withstand vagaries of weather.

Sunshine, clouds, drizzles, downpours.

Know when to nudge their small ones into naps?

All piling in under mother’s ample wing.

Hidden from prying eyes.

Instructing them to poke, peck for food?

While father continues his patrol, hissing at intruders.

What is it about geese?

A dedicated conjugal pair

prioritizing their young.

Collaborating tranquilly,

imparting inspiration.

 

Lynn Benjamin

April 28, 2024

All Poems, Animals/Insects, Birth, For Children, Mother Love, Parent Love

Father Goose

I think Father Goose doesn’t like me, said the woman.

Passing near the pond.

Where papa was on patrol.

Swimming, waddling, pacing.

Back and forth, to and fro.

While his partner sat upon the nest.

In rain, wind, cold.

Even through tremors of a morning earthquake.

Shaking ground around us.

From an event miles away in New Jersey.

Nothing flustered her.

She endured, rooted in place.

But the father wandered a wide berth.

A wary policeman on duty.

Checking out any and all walkers.

Who could disturb his brooding family.

Shooing even the most innocent away.

Jumping, screeching, flapping wings.

For hatching time is near.

Any stranger is a threat.

What do you expect

from a gander never met?

Lynn Benjamin

April 15, 2024

Adult Children, All Poems, Family, Grandchildren, Parent Love, Shabbat, Wisdom, Worry

The Time Had Come

 

The time had come.

To catch the ferry back to Long Beach.

Return to Santa Monica.

Spend a weekend with the grand boys.

Our son reminding us he was going to light candles.

For it was Friday night, Shabbat.

Last Friday, in the whirlwind, we didn’t do it.

So, just before dinner, the candles appeared.

Arthur has been afraid of fire.

But, he conquered his anxiety.

Wanted now to be the first to kindle.

Before Ezra, the second.

With the help of a utility lighter, and mother’s steady hand.

Bob began to sing the accompanying prayer.

Arthur protested, covering his ears, No singing.

Bob stopped, but not understanding, started again.

Arthur screamed, No! No singing!

Our son intervening, saying, Arthur can’t stand the sound.

Was it that the blessing was in Hebrew?

A language he didn’t understand?

We just don’t know.

It surprised us, the child

who loves to croon, to sing,

would object to joyful melody.

To Shabbat welcoming.              

But, three-year-olds are fickle.

They change minds so fast.

Every step is progress,

as each fear surpassed.

Bravo to the parents

who reintroduce, who try

making the strange familiar,

while honoring a child’s cry.

 

Lynn Benjamin

March 30, 2024

All Poems, Babies, Change, Creation, Emotions, Mother Love, Parent Love, Pleasure

Nativity

 

The excitement in your voice rushed, a current.

Swirling, vibrating in tiny circles.

Full of energy, passion.

Recounting nativity on Christmas Eve.

Your first granddaughter.

Invitation to dip a hand, toe.

Feel the motion.

Connect with it.

It pulled me back.

To the birth of my first grandchild.

The sense of awe.

A tiny newborn.

From the loins of my child

Evolution of seed and egg.

Sliding into light.

Before my eyes.

Witness to a new generation.

Unfolding at its own pace.

Overlapping chronologies.

As I paddle to the finish line.

The infant bathing by the shore.

High spirits exhilarate.

Cascade to and fro in time.

Blur boundaries between beginnings.

Rippling, they intertwine.

 

Lynn Benjamin

December 31, 2023

 

 

Adult Children, All Poems, Babies, Children, Family, Grandchildren, Parent Love

How Do They Do It?

 

How do my son and his wife do it? I think to myself.

As I watch their three young boys whirl about.

Little twisters twirling from pillar to post.

Climbing, skipping, jumping.

Drawing, coloring, cutting.

Building sharing, quarreling.

Needing a dozen things at once.

Needing octopi parents.

As many arms as possible.

To feed, comfort, dress, entertain.

Clean up, intervene, wash hands, dry spills.

Bathe, read stories, play, put to bed.

I’m not the only one who wonders how.

A new neighbor stops to chat.

Says he sees they’re in the thick of it.

Unlike he, who now has older teens.

And I, whose adult children have their own.

Most people survive the thickness.

My son and his wife, resolute.

Through thickets green with promise,

ripening robust, juicy fruit.

 

Lynn Benjamin

November 25, 2023

All Poems, Children, Parent Love

Non-Negotiable

 

This is non-negotiable, said the harried mother to her toddler.

As she walked toward the gate at the airport.

Backpack attached, empty stroller in one hand.

Wheeled suitcase in another.

And her child demanding to walk.

Her voice strengthened, I have only two hands.

Which she used to scoop up her son.

Situate him in the carriage.

Make her passage doable.

I credited this mother

setting a limit with her son

while teaching a new concept.

A double parental home run!

 

Lynn Benjamin

November 12, 2023

 

 

Aging, All Poems, Friendship, Parent Love, Wisdom

Covid is Waning

 

Covid is waning, said Bob.

As optimistic as the dahlias out front.

Smiling brightly in mid- October.

Though fated to dry and fall.

He continued, now we can use the train. Go to the theater. See friends.

I knew that Covid was still with us.

It was we who were waning.

But I was silent.

Anticipating the promise of being with friends.

We continued in the car.

Heading toward Chestnut Hill.

Where rain, leaves fell in equal measure.

Racing to outdo each other.

Leaf piles, puddles.

We walked several blocks.

Crunching, struggling to stay dry.

Till ascending steps to our hosts’ home.

Sanctuary, fire blazing.

Where three couples gathered.

To dine in highest style.

Discuss the world and each other.

Autumn abundance, heading into winter.

Holding collective experiences of six lifetimes.

Overflowing with compassion for hurt, oppressed.

For young, loved ones who move in directions.

Other than our own.

For, in truth, we snapped up opportunities.

Forged paths different from our parents’.

Made choices, some mistakes, some triumphs.

Those that follow will do the same.

It’s our turn to bless.

Honor, accept, grant well-being.

While giving thanks for our own eyes, hands, minds.

Enabling us to let in light, cradle innocents.

Trust countless trellises.

That keep us steady.

So we can bolster progeny.

Sustained and now sustaining,

gardeners bracing flowers.

Mercy and loving kindness

are truly what matters.

 

Lynn Benjamin

October 17, 2023

 

All Poems, Animals/Insects, For Children, Humor, Parent Love

Geese Near Me: The Story Unfolds

 

The four goslings grew.

Waddling between parents.

Bookends for the babies.

Around the pond.

On lawns.

Sidewalks.

Till one morning, two unfamiliar geese landed.

Atop a university building.

Facing the pond.

They kept distance for a while.

Though they honked, hollered.

With an intensity that drew me closer.

I circled round.

Waiting.

When one zoomed downward.

Alighting on the nesting ground.

Poking in the straw.

Till Papa Goose spotted him.

Flapped toward him.

Screeching, screaming.

Sending the intruder fleeing for his life.

Then the second prowler descended.

Papa Goose was ready.

Chasing him off.

Howling the whole time.

Never meddle with a father goose,

his chicks, his mate, his land.

His property belongs to him.

All others simply banned.

 

Lynn Benjamin

March 27, 2023