Adult Children, All Poems, Emotions, Family, Miami, 2022, People Traits, Trips and Places

Call It Serendipity

 

Call it serendipity.
Good fortune.
Surprise.
The discovery that Zev was in Florida.
The same time that we arrived.
Though we in Miami.
He in Ocala.
He agreed to drive three hundred miles.
Just to see us.
To intersect.
To connect.
And he did.
What did we do?
Simple things.
Basics.
Hug.
Hold.
Stroll the promenade.
To the pier.
Back again.
Talk.
Listen.
Eat.
Time slivered.
Between paying the bill.
Putting leftovers in a box.
In that fissure, a man approached the table.
He fist bumped Zev.
Eyed the box.
Zev offered: Would you like it?
The man studied the contents.
Took the food.
Thanked Zev.
Walked away.
For the stranger:
Serendipity.
Good fortune.
Surprise.
Kindness can be perennial.
Growing, scattering seeds.
Oh, that more of us could be Zev.
Generous, do good deeds.

Lynn Benjamin
January 31, 2022

Adult Children, All Poems, Amsterdam, Beaches, Cape May, Family, Fear, Grandchildren, Pandemic, Seasons, Trips and Places, Worry

Cape May

 

Cape May, my beach of choice during childrearing.
Victorian mansions.
Abundant dunes.
Seductive walks on the promenade.
Lured here again this August by a siren.
Having missed the past summer due to lockdown.
Arriving with two grandkids and a daughter.
But, Delta variant also circulating in town.
Felling even dually vaccinated.
So, we treaded cautiously among the unmasked.
Help wanted signs everywhere.
Robotic checkers.
Motels withholding housekeeping.
Familiar shops shuttered, gone.
Some people oblivious to the danger.
Jogging, biking, sailing.
Sunbathing, minigolfing, barhopping.
Or maybe aware, but swatting worry away.
Like they would a pesky mosquito.
After all, this was vacation.
Seagulls, terns seemed unconcerned.
Sparrows, doves hopped about.
Dragonflies, not shy.
Even cicadas boasted mating conquests from the trees.
A golden sun squeezed out between ribbons of pink clouds.
A performance that turned everyone’s head.
At dusk, a nightlight moon swelled for scoff beds,
and those chasing ghost crabs.
Summer season brings a crush of visitors to Cape May.
Mostly lovers of sea, sand, salt.
Marsh plants, fowl, insects.
Nature preserves, fishing, swimming.
Joys of uninterrupted time with family, friends.
What could be better?
Normally nothing.
But in these days of anything but normal,
the wish to be home, isolated from humanity,
crosses my mind, multiplies, flies.
It’s an insistent akaakaakaaa, indistinguishable from
the wails of birds overhead.
The anchor that steadies me,
keeps me from rushing away,
are the giggles, hoots, hollers
of my grand boys at play.

Lynn Benjamin
August 11, 2021

Adult Children, All Poems, Death, Family, Homages, Parent Love, Thank-You

Cemetery

 

I am no stranger to walks in a cemetery.
Holidays, birthdays, anniversaries.
Saluting spirits who birthed,
fed, decorated the world for me, us.
When I go, it’s more than obligation.
Appreciation, honor, love.
Remembering.
Hallowing the artistry of parenting.
Craftsmanship that set us on our paths.
Even mistakes, humbly exonerated,
as we make our own.
Some days ago, Zev, our youngest, requested a visit.
So, we went.
To see grandparents, great grandparents, great aunts, uncles.
He, tying bouquets of elegant grasses to lay upon the graves.
Carrying stones to place atop.
A quiet homage.
Four generations connected.
The greats never knew our son.
But, my bones, heart, soul sensed they would  cherish him.
Why not?
He is their future.
Holds their hopes.
Dreams.
Genes.

Lynn Benjamin
December 13, 2021