All Poems, Children, For Children, Hope, Memories, Trees

Mulberry Bush

Here we go round the mulberry bush, intoned Bob.

As we made a wide arc around it.

Not wanting to squish the black juicy berries strewn about.

On Red Oak Drive.

Since moving here, we’ve passed by this tree almost daily.

Always avoiding the fallen fruits in June.

Its foliage towering, green umbrella from on high.

Maybe growing for the last hundred years.

But, not as old as the nursery tune Bob sang.

Each year dropping sweet, seedy berries.

For birds and squirrels.

A few assorted neighbors daring to eat them from the ground.

For the branches are unreachable, even on tiptoe.

So, collecting them, impossible.

Not easy like with a raspberry or blackberry bush.

Both low to the ground.

For some reason, the familiar children’s melody, forgotten.

Even as we marched day after day past the tree.

Till Bob teased my playful child spirit.

The one chanting the song in early childhood.

On the long bus rides to and from day camp.

Then later to her own children.

Never really taking time to meet a mulberry bush.

Till now in old age.

But, as long as I breathe,

there’s always a chance,

I’ll encounter a first time

by glad happenstance.

 

Lynn Benjamin

June 21, 2024

Here We Go Round the Mulberry Bush is an English nursery rhyme and game from the mid nineteenth century.

All Poems, Animals/Insects, Catalina Island, Children, For Children, Stories, Trees, Trips and Places

How Do You Stay Dry?

 

How do you stay dry in a saltwater park?

Well, anything’s possible on Catalina Island.

You can visit hundreds of fish in Love’s Cove.

Seated, comfortable in a semi-submersible.

A boat with large windows, stools below deck.

Where you  pass through kelp forests.

Underwater seaweed trees.

Undulating this way, that.

According to the currents.

Straightening up to look for light.

For in this briny world, kelp grows like magic.

Sometimes two feet a day!

With the help of spherical gas-filled floats.

Like tiny helium balloons.

Keeping  blades near the water’s surface.

To catch sunshine.

Schools of fish and seaweed forests

are busy beneath the sea.

Hop a semi-submersible

to glimpse the variety.

No need for scuba gear,

for deep diving anxiety.

Take children, keep them dry,

eyeing marine society.

 

Lynn Benjamin

March 24, 2024

 

All Poems, Change, Children, Family, Grandchildren, Santa Monica 3/24, Trips and Places

Solly Lumbers

 

Solly lumbers through that strange space called toddlerhood.

Able to push up from squatting.

Take some steps.

Careen forward.

Not exactly knowing where he’ll end up.

Often tripping, falling.

Understanding simple instructions.

Bring me the ball.

Use the fork.

Dance to the music.

But unable to verbalize wishes.

Except when he calls out mama or dada.

Fulfillers of essential needs.

Then pointing for the rest.

A cup, a block, a book.

Knowing small routines.

Familiar sequences.

Steps for bath, lunch, going to the park.

All pretty ingenious if you think about it.

Especially the other night before bed.

When Solly put his finger in his mouth.

Moved it back and forth along his teeth.

His father thinking he wanted to nurse.

Handing him to his mother.

But, Solly, not interested.

Perking up, smiling when he heard her say,

he wants to brush his teeth!

Living with a toddler

is an ongoing pantomime.

But, once words start flowing,

baby no longer needs to sign.

 

Lynn Benjamin

March 22, 2024

 

All Poems, Change, Children, Family, Grandchildren, Gym/exercise, Health/Illness, Humor

Sure

 

I was sure I’d arrive in Santa Monica.

Demonstrate my new-found power.

To my son and his family.

Derived from lifting kettlebells.

Slamming medicine balls.

Pumping weights.

Till I crammed into a three-seat row on the plane.

Actually holding four passengers.

For a large service dog named Kin laid across the floor.

Taking up most of the leg room.

Till I watched my daughter-in-law.

Carry home a toddler, in one arm, his scooter, in the other.

After herding two older brothers from school.

Preparing dinner.

Till I saw her read a book with a crying three-year-old on her lap.

Soothe a five-year-old while gulping a few forkfuls of her meal.

Corral them all upstairs for baths.

It was she who had the power.

In decades past, was I.

In this nest of baby grandsons,

I’m a fragile butterfly.

I guess my quest for strength

at home, I’ll satisfy.

For here with whirlwind boys,

I’m just a passerby.

 

Lynn Benjamin

March 19, 2024

 

 

 

Adolescence, Aging, All Poems, Change, Children, Family, Grandchildren, Time

Who Can Tell Me?

 

Who can tell me where the years have gone?

Didn’t I make countless trips to New York?

To help Roseanne with babies?

Change diapers?

Push them in strollers?

Wheel them to Central Park?

To the Museum of Natural History?

Is it possible I sit today on a subway car with teens?

Heading to see a musical?

Do they, too, sense the flash of time?

Or are they so occupied with themselves, they don’t notice?

Don’t see my wrinkled face?

Old age gait?

But, we don’t discuss me or things past.

Just the theme of today’s play.

Kimberly Akimbo.

Ironic, the topic, time.

The rush of it due to illness.

Whose message, enjoy the moments you have.

So, they do.

Focusing on what to eat,

on laughing, making fun.

A tender, gossamer gathering.

Another memory spun.

 

Lynn Benjamin

March 15, 2024

 

All Poems, Art/Arts, Change, Children, Family, For Children, Grandchildren, Mexico, Miracles, Playa del Carmen, Pleasure, Stories, Trips and Places

It Felt a Miracle

 

It felt a miracle.

Cancún in the morning.

Philadelphia, late afternoon.

Tropical heat.

Bone piercing chill.

Vibrant palm fronds.

Naked oaks.

Warm Caribbean waters.

Semi frozen Schuylkill.

Sonorous Spanish sounds.

Flat Philly English.

Once in the house, the cell rang.

The children’s mother, our daughter.

How was the trip?

Amazing, said Elias.

Excellent, his sister.

They went on to elaborate.

I asked each, what was your favorite part?

I, thinking cenotes, pools, holding butterflies, the beach.

One said, the temples.

The other agreed.

What about the temples, I asked.

Their decoration, endurance through time, history.

I have to say I was gratified

by interest in Mayan shrines.

How ancient carvings in the stone

revealed beliefs, storylines.

 

Lynn Benjamin

February 29, 2024

Adult Children, All Poems, Animals/Insects, Children, Emotions, Family, Grandchildren, Spain, Trips and Places, Valencia

Bioparc

 

What about the Bioparc? I proposed.

An option for Saturday morning.

Katusha, enthused, looked up.

Yes, I love animals!

Her father, less excited.

Zoos are everywhere. They’re not culturally Spanish, he said.

But this one’s special, I attempted to persuade.

Natural habitats for animals.

Grouping by geography.

Madegascar, Congo Basin, Wetlands, Savannah.

Caves, aquariums, forests.

A safari, on foot.

Signs in Spanish.

Elefantes, hipopótamos, jirafas.

Parents coaxing children.

Ven, mira, sube.

Commenting, qué lindo, precioso, chulo.

Though her papa not convinced,

we made our expedition.

Katusha adventuring in Bioparc

despite Papa’s admonition.

 

Lynn Benjamin

February 1, 2024

 

 

All Poems, Children, Family, Grandchildren, Time

The Thing About Being a Grandparent

 

The thing about being a grandparent.

Is that you get to relive snippets.

From a prior life.

Babies on the cusp of walking.

Learning first words.

You interact with babysitters.

Mind young children.

Hear about or visit schools.

Review teachers, programs.

Re-experience playfulness.

Neediness, limitless affection.

Behaviors that boost morale.

Make you feel special.

The other side, too.

You set limits when preschoolers refuse to budge.

And then, of course, you deal with tantrums.

Little tempests after a long day without a nap.

When nothing consoles.

Needing to run their course.

Till clouds subside, sun returns.

Kaleidoscope of days gone by.

Patterns old and new.

Participant observer.

Compassionate point of view.

 

Lynn Benjamin

November 27, 2023

 

 

All Poems, Children, Electronics, Family, Grandchildren, People Traits

Children Have Traits

 

All children have traits that others notice.

Some, physical beauty.

Others, a sunny temperament.

Gymnastic agility.

Artistic or linguistic talent.

Ezra, five, excels in math.

Has since age three.

Attracted to numbers.

Address signs.

Counting games.

Adding, subtracting with ease.

Lately, multiplying, dividing.

Dabbling in algebra.

Delighting in negative numbers.

Fractions, decimals.

Playing on calculators.

Solving problems on DreamBox.

Ezra amazes me.

Because I had little interest in math as a child.

Perhaps its possibilities frightened me.

Or its roots in reality.

For I lived in imagination.

How can a five-year-old make numeric connections?

Calculate days in a week, a month, a year?

Figure out miles per second, minute, hour?

Understand measurements, money?

With the dexterity of an acrobat?

What combination of genes

confers these awesome powers?

Motivating him to train

with exuberance for hours?

 

Lynn Benjamin

November 26, 2023

Adult Children, All Poems, Babies, Children, Family, Grandchildren, Parent Love

How Do They Do It?

 

How do my son and his wife do it? I think to myself.

As I watch their three young boys whirl about.

Little twisters twirling from pillar to post.

Climbing, skipping, jumping.

Drawing, coloring, cutting.

Building sharing, quarreling.

Needing a dozen things at once.

Needing octopi parents.

As many arms as possible.

To feed, comfort, dress, entertain.

Clean up, intervene, wash hands, dry spills.

Bathe, read stories, play, put to bed.

I’m not the only one who wonders how.

A new neighbor stops to chat.

Says he sees they’re in the thick of it.

Unlike he, who now has older teens.

And I, whose adult children have their own.

Most people survive the thickness.

My son and his wife, resolute.

Through thickets green with promise,

ripening robust, juicy fruit.

 

Lynn Benjamin

November 25, 2023