I had a strange sensation, said Bob in the bathroom.
Staring into the mirror.
My cheeks used to be chubby. I looked like my father.
But, recently, Bob lost weight.
Between exercising, watching diet.
He continued, now my cheeks are hollow. My mother emerged.
Pointing to his cheekbones.
Skin below, sunken inward.
His observations, true.
My eyes, another mirror.
Ears, too.
Hearing his mother’s words cascade from his mouth.
Hippity do dah, when his hip hurts.
Noticing behaviors.
Her need to be everywhere early.
Plan, organize, strive for perfection.
While his father, a free spirit.
Spontaneous, arriving late.
Jolly, good humored, rarely ruffled.
Wry sense of humor.
Lover of food, overweight.
Which Bob was until his mother poked out.
But, I suppose that’s what happens
as years roll on by.
Genetics of each parent
in minds and bodies vie.
Lynn Benjamin
June 14, 2024