All Poems, Babies, Birthdays, For Children

Asher, Bebé

 

Asher, bebé, it’s been a year
since you have touched our lives,
exuding joy and energy
from both of your brown eyes.

All of us adore you:
grandparents, greats, and kin.
You’ve captivated every heart
with an invitation in.

To play with you, to tickle,
to make merry and surprise.
You slip so easily from peek-a-boo
to being rather wise.

Your fame has spread around the world
through cybermail and pics:
Manhattan, Philly, Syracuse,
souvenirs of all your tricks.

To cousins in Buenos Aires
and Jerusalem of Gold,
across the sea to sunny Spain
your milestones unfold.

Asher, bebé, you are our star
we cherish you, our treasure.
Mommy, Daddy and baby Asher
all give to us great pleasure.

Love and kisses on your first birthday!!

Yaya Lynn and Grandpop Bob

May 31, 2006

I wrote this poem on the occasion of baby Asher’s first birthday. I used the Spanish bebé because Bob and I had gone several times to Buenos Aires to visit cousins and they called him Asher bebé or príncipe Asher. I simply liked the sounds.

All Poems, Babies, Birth, Change, Growth, Parent Love, Time

Baby Is Born

 

Yesterday, from Montreal, the text message dinged:
Baby is born.
Immediately, my fingers tapped: Mazal tov!
But the three word announcement brimmed
with meaning, emotion, expectation.
Oxytocin, adoration, rapture.
Holding, cradling, swaddling.
Unmistakable newborn smells, cries,
coos, hiccups, snorts.
Worries about how to feed, manage,
fold the child into busy schedules,
know what to do, when.
Enormous responsibility.
Guiding a vulnerable being,
with its own temperament, nature, intellect,
abilities, limitations,
to be a kind contributor to society,
Learn to share but also be successful.
How compatible are those goals?
How to be human in a tech tossed world?
So much to master.
So many years to teach.
It takes my breath away to fathom the time,
the energy to do one’s best.
And yet, today, the baby born last night
has not yet breathed twenty-four hours.
I suppose it wise to take it bit by bit.
Days at first seem long and full.
in retrospect, they vanish in a blink,
a heartbeat, a swallow.

Lynn Benjamin
June 3, 2021